“It’s Not Our Fault”: How to Stop the IT Vendor Blame Game and Reclaim Your Time

It is a scenario every business owner dreads.

Your internet is down (or your CRM is crashing, or your VoIP phones are silent). You call your Internet Service Provider (ISP). They run a test and say, “The line is fine. It must be your firewall.” So, you call your IT support. They check the firewall and say, “The firewall is fine. It’s definitely the ISP dropping packets.”

You are stuck in the middle. You aren’t a network engineer, yet you are forced to act as the messenger between two tech companies who are both refusing to take responsibility. Meanwhile, your staff are idle, and your business is losing money.

This is the “Vendor Blame Game.” And in the modern business landscape, where you rely on dozens of different SaaS apps and providers, it is a productivity killer.

Why The “Blame Game” Happens

Support desks at large utility companies (ISPs, software vendors) are incentivised to close tickets quickly. If they can find a plausible reason why the issue is “on your end,” they will use it to get you off the phone.

If you don’t speak their technical language—knowing the difference between packet loss, latency, and DNS propagation—you can’t argue back. You are helpless.

The Enterprise Solution: Vendor Liaison

In the corporate environments I used to manage (like at Accenture or the Bank of England), executives never sat on hold with an internet provider. That was my job.

As a Lead Systems Administrator, I acted as the “One Point of Contact” (or, less politely, the “One Throat to Choke”). I spoke the technical language required to force the vendor to take action.

At HDP IT Services, we bring this enterprise standard to businesses across the UK through our Vendor Liaison service .  

How We Fix It (So You Don’t Have To)

1. We Speak “Tech-to-Tech”

When we call your ISP or software vendor, we skip the “have you turned it off and on again” script. We provide them with traceroutes, error logs, and specific technical evidence that proves the fault is theirs.

  • Result: Tickets get escalated to real engineers immediately, cutting resolution time by hours (or days).  

2. We Own the Relationship

We document every detail of your vendors—account numbers, IP addresses, technical contacts—in our secure system. When there’s a problem, you call us. We triage the issue. If it’s an external vendor, we handle it. You get a simple update: “We are working with Virgin Media to fix a line fault; ETA 2 hours.” You get on with your day.  

3. We Leverage Industry Partnerships

As part of our Gold Managed Service Plan, we don’t just fix breakages; we actively manage your licensing and applications. We leverage our industry status to ensure you aren’t overpaying for licenses you don’t use or getting poor service from third-party suppliers.

The Value of Your Time

Ask yourself: What is your hourly rate as a business leader? If you spend 4 hours this month sitting on hold or debugging a software glitch, that is hundreds of pounds in lost leadership value.

Vendor Liaison isn’t just a convenience; it is a protective layer around your time.

Stop Being the Messenger

You hired an IT partner to solve technology problems, not to give you homework.

If you are tired of being stuck in the middle of the blame game, it’s time to upgrade to a partner who takes full responsibility.

Book your Free IT & Cybersecurity Health Check today. We’ll review your current setup—and your vendor list—to show you how we can simplify your life.